IT'S TIME TO BE
SELFISH
The flagship school of sovereignty, self-mastery, and unconditional love is now available as a self-paced digital journey!
6 MODULES - SELF PACED - A YEARLONG CONTAINER
Death of the good girl.
Birth of the Selfish Woman.
Unshakable confidence, inner authority, and self-possession. Relentless devotion to the deepest thing inside of you. And a deep, embodied, spiritual practice in service to your wholeness, your truth, and your becoming.
Selfish is a whole-system, cellular upgrade - initiating you into alignment with exactly who the f*ckkkkkk you were born to be. These are the ancient codes of feminine power and alchemical wisdom for the modern woman ready for a big, juicy, embodied life that belongs all the way to her.
HERE'S THE TRUTH:
We have an epidemic of APOLOGETIC WOMEN
Which is weird... because that is NOT WHO YOU ACTUALLY FUCKING ARE!!!!!!
Dimming your light and softening your words and punishing yourself for saying no, seeing the truth, taking up space... whatttttt?!?
You are brilliant but you've made a home of minimizing that, doubting it. You're exhausted but smiling through, still waiting to get yours on the other side being attuned to everyone else. You're dying to be chosen, to be peaceful... and terrified of what it would mean if you gave that to yourself, here and now, with no more waiting.
Underneath where you've been taught to ignore the inner whispers, and smother the flames of desire, and pretend it's all okay, Is the truth of who you are: a woman playing way too small who is SOOOOO tired of it.
Done being managed. Done performing. Done negotiating.
And this is a devotion problem.
Not a needing-more-discipline problem.
You don't need more therapy with Deborah who you've been seeing since you literally first got your period. You don't need another journal prompt from your yoga teacher's Instagram. And it's definitely not about trying harder.
This is about becoming a woman who is so rooted in herself that living outside of herself is no longer an option. Not because she's forcing it. But because she's devoted to something far deeper.
That's what Selfish does.
This is an initiation you give yourself. Six months of teaching, transmission, and embodied remembrance that rearranges you at the cellular level - until honoring YOU is no longer a decision you have to make every day.
It's who you are.
the foundational education in your power that every woman should have.
Inside of Selfish, you will:
i.
Take the throne of your own life.
Stop waiting for permission. Crown yourself the master of your expression, your needs, and your deepest desire.
ii.
Give your boundaries a cellular upgrade.
Fierce enough to protect your power. Soft enough to let gorgeous, devotional love in deeper than you've ever allowed.
iii.
Elevate your relationships into nourishment
No more default settings of how relationships are supposed to be. Transform your connections so they feed your soul and stoke your fire.
iv.
Set fire to the patterns that dim your light.
Burn down the illusions, the inherited stories, the self-abandonment. Rise from the ashes as the woman who can hold her own transformation.
v.
Birth a life that drips with raw authenticity.
Every step feels like home in your own skin - pulsing with your creation and the deep knowing that you can have it.
UNSHAKABLE CONFIDENCE, UNWAVERING SELF-TRUST
WHAT'S INSIDE
Everything you need to become the Selfish woman you were born to be:
01
SIX TEACHING TRANSMISSIONS
One module at a time, guiding you meticulously through the portal of reclaiming yourself and embodying who you were meant to be. Potent, visceral, and designed to rearrange you at the cellular level.
02
SIX GROUP COACHING RECORDINGS
Witness real women being coached live by Hailey through every module. Receive the codes, the attunement, and the transformational work through their process - as if you were in the room.
03
ALCHEMICAL WRITING GUIDES
Writing prompts, reflection questions, and embodied assignments for each module, designed to integrate the teachings into your bones and initiate you deeper into your own process.
04
A YEAR OF ACCESS TO THE TEACHINGS OF TRANSFORMATIONAL SELF LOVE
Return to Selfish whenever you need her, for a whole year. This is a body of work you'll come back to again and again as you move through your world, and its here for you as you go.
TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH & SPIRITUAL EMBODIMENT TEACHER
Hi, I'm Hailey
I teach women how to root so deeply into themselves that nothing can come between you and your soul.
Selfish is my foundational body of work. This is the medicine I forged in the fire of my own process toward cellular self acceptance, fully embodying my power, and letting real gorgeousssss love in all at the same time.
I've taken many women through the Selfish initiation. I believe it's every woman's birthright to live for herself, create from soul-truth, and be the epicenter of her world!
In order to do that, you must become Selfish. This is the transformational, timeline shifting alchemical upgrade of devoting to the deepest sense of who you are... and never leaving it again.
Words from five years of
SELFISH WOMEN
"Selfish and my work with Hailey was the most transformative work I have done for myself. Her teachings are a gift. Selfish will put you in a place where you are able to see that in order to be the best version of yourself, you need to take care of yourself. Hailey will help you get there. Do it."
MARY
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"Saying yes to Selfish was the best gift I ever gave to myself. Come for radical self love, and stay for the deepest energetic initiation that will change your relationship with everyone and everything in your life. My baseline has completely shifted."
HAILEY P
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"I don’t know if words can convey how grateful I am... and how deeply our journey together has touched me, shaped me, changed me. As I have healed, I feel like I’m healing the generational and ancestral line going back and forward. Just simply how I relate to my children, there’s a difference. And, in how I see myself."
MICHELLE
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"I can truly say that this work became a part of me- orienting to my true pace, my true slowness, my true needs, and holding myself with compassion... without the extra layer of guilt and shame. It’s so special to have Hailey as a guide who embodies that, so I can feel it and create it for myself."
ANA SOFIA
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YOUR INVESTMENT
An investment into your
true power.
When you step into this container, you are choosing yourself at the deepest level.
You are claiming your power, your joy, your truth, and your radiance as the priority they deserve to be.
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Add 1:1 Sessions with Hailey
Every Selfish student receives access to special 1:1 sessions with Hailey, available to add on any time inside the portal. Sometimes you just want eyes on your process and some deep solid holding.
Instant access. Yearlong membership. Begin the moment you enroll.
The questions before you start
FREQUENTLY ASKED
How is this different from every other self-love course?
This is wildly different. We are not here for affirmations you don't believe. We are not here for bubble baths as a substitute for boundaries. We are not here to therapize your pain, script your no, or turn your sovereignty into a content strategy.
Selfish is not soft.
It is not sanitized.
And tbh is not safe in the way you've been told healing should be.
If you want to have conversations about nervous system regulation and attachment theory, this is not for you.
This is the medicine underneath the medicine. The root, not the leaves. The alchemical, embodied, spiritual work of becoming a Selfish woman.
How do I know this will work for me?
This work meets you where you're willing to meet it. If you show up - with the teachings, the writing, and your own honesty - Selfish will move you. Not because of Hailey. Because of what gets activated in you when a woman finally says yes to herself. What you've been doing got you here. It's time to do something different.
The women who've moved through this container didn't get transformed by the content. They got transformed by their own decision to stop waiting.
Do I get direct access to Hailey?
Selfish is a self-paced digital course, so there are no live group calls included. However, every Selfish student has exclusive access to book specially priced 1:1 sessions with Hailey - available both at checkout and anytime inside the portal. If you want personal coaching through your journey, it's available.
What if I can't afford it right now?
The payment plan exists for exactly this reason - to make Selfish accessible to every woman who knows she needs this work.
But also... part of the Selfish initiation is confronting the stories you tell yourself about what's possible. The woman you're becoming inside this container is worth the investment she requires. If it's a yes in your body, find the way.
Is this the same Selfish that was offered live?
Yes - this is the full Selfish curriculum, the exact body of work taught live for five years, refined and now available as a self-paced digital journey. The teaching transmissions, the group coaching recordings, and the alchemical writing guides. All of it.
What's different is the container. You move through it on your own timeline, revisit whenever you need, and engage with the 1:1 option when your process is asking for direct holding.
Is now the right time for me?
If you're asking that question, something in you already knows the answer. Selfish is for the woman who is done being the good girl. Who is exhausted from performing a version of herself that isn't hers. Who knows, in her bones, that it's time to come home to herself.
You don't need to be perfectly ready. You just need to be willing.
Your Selfish Era
begins now.
The school of sovereignty, self-mastery, and unconditional love - waiting for the moment you say yes to yourself.
Instant access. Yearlong containment Journey at your own pace.
RELENTLESS MOTHER F*CKINGGGGG SELF-LOVE AS YOUR SPIRITUAL PRACTICE
see you inside ;)
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